List the things in your life that are important to you.

Consider what you have and have not liked in your relationships until now.

 Identify the qualities that you would like in a mate. Do his/her principles, values, habits, morals and philosophies matter a lot to you?

Evaluate your own personality and interests.
Go to places where people who share your interests are likely to be found.

Network with friends who can introduce people known personally to them.

Look good, dress as well as you can, be confident and cultivate self-esteem.
These attributes will attract people to you.

Be patient: love takes understanding, commitment and practice to flourish.